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SUN ONLINE, MAY 16, 2019

OUT OF POCKET: British parents will fork out £28,000 on extracurricular activities before their kids leave home

  • As many as 77 per cent admit to feeling under huge pressure to find the extra cash

BRITISH parents will fork out a staggering £28,000 on extracurricular activities, including tuition, clubs and after school activities, before their children leave home.

A new study of UK parents has discovered the true price parents will pay for extra tuition, sports training and clubs before their children turn 18.

As many as 77 percent admitted to feeling under huge pressure to find the extra cash each week as school budgets are cut and families are left to plug the gaps.

The findings from the report – Out of School, Out of Pocket, come as head teachers and teaching unions warn that school budgets are not keeping pace with rising student numbers and schools can no longer afford to offer the full range of activities that parents expect.

According to the data, roughly six in ten parents feel they have to find the money because their children simply love their chosen activities, while 35 percent said they just want to give their kids every possible chance in life.

Almost one in three said they want to look back and say they did as much as they possibly could for their kids, while a further 20 percent want their children to be more successful than they were.


Over one in ten admitted they felt guilty if they didn’t give their children every opportunity, while a further seven per cent admitted they felt pressure to keep up with other parents.

And according to the study, it’s not just the financial burden parents have to shoulder, with the average parent spending 156 hours (that’s six and a half days of every year) ferrying their children to and from activities.

In fact, modern parent’s dedication to their offspring also means the days of lazy weekend lie-ins are a thing of the past, with most of us having to be up and out by 8am on a Saturday AND a Sunday, according to the report.

The survey of 2,000 parents by education communications consultancy GK and Partners found that the average British child does three activities a week with swimming lessons and clubs proving the most popular out of school activity (45 percent), followed by sports training (28 percent), dance and ballet lessons (18 percent) and gymnastics (17 percent).


Mark Cooper, a spokesperson at GKP, said parents probably felt they had little choice but to splash the cash: “If cash-strapped schools can’t provide an education in the broadest sense then parents will do what they can to plug the gaps – even if it means cutting back elsewhere.”

But he pointed out that they were doing it for the best of reasons: “It’s sobering, and somewhat comforting, to learn that the number one reason why parents spend so much money and time on out-of-school activities is that children enjoy them.

“To be sure, ambition and future success are also significant motivations, but it’s heartening to learn that parents agree to pay for those extra guitar and dancing lessons not principally because they think their children will land a better job, or to impress the neighbours, but because they want to indulge simple childish pleasure.

“That indulgence isn’t cheap. But the spending on activities that can be loosely termed ‘non-academic’ – sports, music and drama – rather than on extra tuition, suggests that parents are interested in giving their children an ‘education’ in the broadest sense rather than merely helping them to improve their school grades.”

One in ten pay for painting lessons, while a further ten percent shell out for drama classes and a hopeful four percent said they pay for extra lessons, tuition and coaching to make the children famous in their chosen field.

A staggering 89 percent of the mums and dads polled said they thought being a parent was more competitive than it had every been when they were children.


What parents will pay for

  • Sports/clubs/training/lessons – £260 a year, £3,380 in a childhood
  • Dance/Ballet/clubs/lessons – £208 a year, £2,704 in a childhood
  • Drama/clubs/lessons – £156 a year, £2,028 in a childhood
  • Extra tuition/maths/English – £468 a year, £6,084 in a childhood
  • Musical instruments/lessons – £208 a year, £2,704 in a childhood
  • Swimming/lessons/clubs/admission – £312 a year, £4,056 in a childhood
  • Gymnastics/self-defence/Judo/Karate – £416 a year, £5,408 in a childhood
  • Arts/Painting/lessons/clubs – £156 a year, £2,028 in a childhood

Total: £28,000